Having a moment of hurt 😞 and I just needed encouragement. This is difficult only married for 8 months and only 3 wks and recently 1 month of him acting okay. So I called my Pastor for encouragement and I immediately was told I’m going through everything because I married him in disobedience. I was warned to delay in married him and I married him anyway. And I know

this and I have repented and ask for forgiveness. I’m hurt right now I’m confused I mean I received my deliverance through this and I’m loyal to God I’m praying. This pastor argued me down saying im still being disobedient by talking to my husband when God told me to stay out the way(which I have completely went no contact with my husband) but in the same aspect the pastor is saying to let him leave so it won’t be on me. I have already worked on a exit plan I can’t live like this.. As you all know living in a situation like this is horrible. But my Pastor is only looking at it from his point of view, to let God change him or move him. And he told me I need to encourage myself and if I was being obedient I would be way stronger to endure. I told my pastor I will listen to what God tells me not what man says and that God is giving me a way out and he literally pretty much hung up the phone on me. All I needed was some encouragement not to be bashed… 😩