My husband and I been together for 6 yrs and we have a 3yr old. Past few yrs he has NEVEEER taken me out on a date. Im at this point in life where I need that time with him, go on little dates atleast once a month. everyday is just the sameee thing over and over again. Ive expressed my feelings and thoughts about spending time just the two but he always tells me why im being selfish because i only want to spend time w him , he tells me he’ll rather go out as a family and we always do but i miss the little dates, go out of the daily routine, have some drinks…. i don’t feel loved by him, i feel like im fighting for attention its just not the same anymore, everything is just a routine :( again I’ve expressed my feelings but for him time alone just the two of us is not necessary and it’s selfish to even think about it. We do have his mom who can watch our daughter so that’s not a problem