I hate that I have to tell him or ask him to show me physical affection. He isn’t the type to flirt with me, hug, touch, grope, have sex, kiss, or anything without being reminded. He doesn’t hate me and he’s not cheating. He is just like this. Has been for 14 years. It bothers me a lot, though. But, at least I got some last night. I have a very high libido so I sacrifice a lot in the relationship where love language is concerned. Ladies who go through this aren’t alone.

His love language revolves around snacks and food. I am conquering my food addiction and have lost 36 lbs since May. My emotions have been all over the place as a result of this. Idk where we go from here with how he expresses love. It’s a talk I have been dreading having with him.