Pls I don’t want any negativity I just want to know if what I’m feeling is selfish or if others have gone through the same . I’m a single mom and I do my regular mom duties, clean up after them, cook, shower, get them ready for school and all , after I look after my house and my small dog but I’m okay with that . I have a boyfriend “not the dad”, and he is super nice and all don’t get me wrong . The kids like him and that makes me happy but before we met he was more independent with his needs like he did his own laundry and made his own meals but now he kinda moved in for real and I do it all . His laundry his food , waking up to cook him breakfast and pack his work lunch . Lately I just feel like he’s an added chore himself I sometimes think I want to be alone again where I could relax. I dont expect him to watch after my kids in anyway but I would appreciate if he did dishes once in a while, or clean the living room or mop the floor , maybe clean a bathroom. I just feel a little stress that’s all . I’m embarrassed . This morning I just got my kids ready for the day made our beds and while I did that he could had started breakfast but he’s just playing his game . He doesn’t have to but it would be nice the little extra help. Maybe I’m being an A hole. I don’t want to be.