Hi mommas,

I’m here to just vent . Maybe look for some advice idk .

I’ve been with my husband 9 years things have always been good then not and back and forth as every relationship has their problems.

While we have baby under 1 , i work from home so I have her 24/7 . My husband leaves for work at 4-5pm and gets home around 1230/130 am . He doesn’t wake up till 3pm. When he gets up he does his morning routine . So he hardly ever sees our child. And he doesn’t help with anything unless I beg him .

Last night I had a migraine and our daughter woke up right when he got home so I asked for his help and he did and then again today around 11:30 I asked again for his help watching her for like 45 mins so I can focus on work . He got pissed , and snappy with me . Said he was sleeping and didn’t want to get up that he was tired .

Even on his days off he doesn’t care to truly spend time with either of us . He does and doesn’t I feel like I’m forcing him . I have asked and begged for him to switch jobs and for more help. (Not that I can’t do it myself because I can but it would just be nice to have that help, love and care from my partner )

I just feel like I’m doing everything I feed her , make all her meals , bath time , changing diapers playing , teaching i do it all.

I guess I’m just frustrated because we discussed this before having a baby. I wanted him to be around I wanted him to be active in our child’s life . I just thought he would be a better husband/ father . (Not that he’s a bad father because hes not . When he is around he absolutely loves our child and treats her amazing) it’s just not the type of person I wanted for my child and that hurts me more then anything