I’m numb down there

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I feel nothing when my man goes down on me Iv had a few partners in the past that have gone down on me and it doesn’t feel good for me, I feel nothing. Sex doesn’t feel good, whenever I use toys I don’t feel it either. Is this normal. Im not nervous and I don’t feel anxious so i don’t know why I don’t feel anything. I just want to get answers and every time I go see my Ob she says everything looks normal but it doesn’t feel normal to not experience pleasure. Iv explored with different toys and different positions so im not sure what else more I can do and yes Iv used lube to I don’t get wet at all because I know im never satisfied during sexual activities