Here’s your POV:

You were in a very dysfunctional family growing up. Sexual abuse allegations towards your step dad from your biological sister, your mom still staying with him because she’s co-dependent, doesn’t have anything and doesn’t care to, even after she lost custody of us.. We were shortly returned.

You ran away countless times escaping the household, unfortunately, you did this in 2015, and didn’t resurface until 2021.

2021 rolls around and you’re back in your hometown STATE. Your mom calls you and tells you the struggle is basically over and you can come back. You’re in a hotel, she picks you up.

You go back, the vibes are still very heavy, very heavy.. My bedroom holds a dark presence, always had.

I left and went back to the other city I was in for better opportunity.

You now have your own apartment, a paid in full car, been self employed since you came back in 2021, raising your daughter, in college etc.

Ever since you went to last visit them in 2023, you’ve been talking about going to see them again, but because of circumstances (school and being a mom) you couldn’t.

Your mom is the type to hint to want to hang up the phone when this man (stepdad) walks in and gets around her.

Anyways, she comes to the city you’re in (because yall are 2-3 hours away), she doesn’t message you or anything UNTIL she’s home and chilling. She mentions how they (my brother and step dad) went out to eat, she always favored him- most narcs do that to their sons..

My other sister (who had the allegations) doesn’t talk to anyone in my family except me.

When I realized my mom didn’t even care to acknowledge me, it made me feel a way and I let her aware of that (we were on the phone, she made a hint that she wanted off and after she told me she was in my city, and after I explained how I felt, I then used her hinting to get off the phone, as a reason to literally get off the phone).

I deal with abusive relationships and just always being the only fucking one to ever try, it’s been like that since childhood- it only stops with me right?

Am I overthinking or would it be best to just cut her off?