Moving in with a male coworker when he has a wife

I'm 19 and have been going through things with my mom. I was in college to be a nurse and my mom forced me to drop out. She got mad because she found out I was playing D&D with friends. I have been depressed and this was helping and I found it fun. She said D&D is demonic and freaked out on me. She told me that I need help and I confessed what I did to the priest at our church. She made me attend therapy through the church. Ruined my whole summer basically. Then told me as punishment I had to drop out of college because I'm clearly being influenced. I know people will say I'm a legal adult but how she sees it, her house her rules. I've had people say my mom sounds narcissistic but I haven't truly seen it until now. She made me drop out and also wants me to pay $800 a month in rent. I make 10/hr. So her and my dad said they would find me a second job. I'm not allowed to look for my own. I was venting to a work friend and a guy I worked with naked Erik overheard and spoke to me. He's 36 and said I can move in with him and told me everything will be fine and I can mooch off of him for a while. The thing with Erik is he has a wife that for the longest time people thought wasn't real. He's an odd dude. Turns out he DOES have a wife. They just aren't living together right now. He's living with his mom. I was so desperate to get away that I snuck out at night and and he took me to his place. It hasn't been too weird besides he wants me to go everywhere with him when we are home. To the store. Out to eat. Etc. The only time I'm not going is when he's with his wife. Well one of other coworkers found out and she finds the whole thing weird and creepy. I asked would she be saying that if genders were reversed and she said yeah. She would find a 36 year old married woman who lives with her father moving a 19 year old teenage boy into her home when she doesn't live with her on husband weird and creepy. Is this wrong? I don't plan to stay here forever? I just want to go back to college and finish.

@Star my parents made me drop out of college as punishment for Playing D&D and won't let me pick out my own jobs. I don't feel like any of this is reasonable. I don't feel safe there. I was getting emotionally abused and finally understanding what people meant by my mom is a narcissist.