How do I break up with my boyfriend of a year? I love him very much but we’re not a good fit together. We’ve both done things that we both wish we could take back, we’ve learnt from it but the damage is still done. We have different morals and ambitions that sometimes clash. We have different plans for the future, he wants to live on the countryside and raise kids, work on a farm etc. I want to live in the city, I don’t want kids as I would rather travel. We have unlimited love for each other but I don’t really see it working out because we’re so different. I’ve thought about it for quite some time now but It’s too difficult for me to talk about. I don’t want to be without him, but i’m not sure that we’re such a good fit. I don’t know what to do, please help.