My husband's grandfather is in a nursing home. He's getting older and doesn't seem to have a lot of time left on this Earth. His grandfather is a Holocaust survivor and the older he gets it seems the more of his trauma he is reliving and more flash backs. He will call my husband in the middle of the night terrified and my husband has to calm him down. My husband was raised by his grandfather because his mom was an addict and his dad went to prison for weed and died in prison from cancer. My husband really wants his grandfather here for his final months. I'm just not sure. I like my peace. I like my space. However my husband let my mom stay when she was going through financial issues. I do feel it's a little different because she's my mom. Plus my husband knows him well. His grandfather is a quiet person and I never got the chance to really know him. My husband also feels the nursing home isn't equipped to handle his flash backs. Also Hanukkah is coming up in a few months and I know my husband wants this. Especially since he was more than happy to help my mom. Even though I would help my mom all over again I do like having my space. I guess I could use some advice.

Edit: it's not dementia. He's always had problems with flashbacks. They've just gotten worse