Hemorrhoid…Help!!!!!

Kendra

21 weeks and 3 days. I am dealing with a hemorrhoid. The pain is unbearable. I’ve tried the tucks cream and pads, hydrocortisone and was prescribed hydrocortisone when I went to an urgent care. It feels like the pain is radiating to my left butt cheek. When I see my midwife, I’m hoping she have recommendations. Even taking sitz baths aren’t helping. The doctor at the urgent care want me to see a colon and rectal surgeon. The pain interferes with sleep and I just be uncomfortable at work. It hurts to walk and stand. Idk what to do anymore. Any recommendations?