If you had 4 kids with your husband and found out with video evidence that he paid a male prostitute for sex, brought them into your home but didn't even have sex with him. He just beat this person while his friends recorded and you find out that there are at least 3 other occasions where your husband has brought prostitutes into your home to beat while his friends recorded. From what you know they never had sex. He just tricked sex workers into thinking he was paying them for sex and he was just beating them for fun. And possibly getting off to the videos later....

Update: I have left my husband. Also he wasn't just beating up male prostitutes. He was beating up prostitutes in general and committing other horrible acts to these people for no reason. I've gotten my kids out of there too. I don't think it's a gay thing. From everything I found out I think he genuinely gets off to hurting people...