So in my past there was this guy: tall, smart, very emotionally available. All around great guy! He treated me VERYY well. But I had to be honest with myself… there was very little to zero physical attraction 😅 i had a hard time wanting to kiss him, touch him. I couldnt do it. I felt HORRIBLE, but I couldnt do it. In the end, I ended it.

Now years later, I’m seeing this other guy: tall, handsome, smart, emotionally available, great guy too! And maaaaan am I physically attracted to him🥵🥵🥵 I want to kiss him, touch him, allll of that.

It just baffles me that guy#1 had everything too! Buuuut, I just wasnt physically attracted to him and had to end it. While guy #2 is great too AND theres physical attraction.

Does physical attraction play THAT big of a role? I didnt realizs it back then but😳