My husband and i both have high sex drives but they work differently. Mine is all day every day, i could be ready to go at a funeral (i never would, im just making a point). His takes breaks. There was a time it just wasnt there for 8 months, which was honestly horrible and by far the lowest point in our relationship, and right now we're going on 4 months. We go from having to give him a few days to recover because his body cant physically handle any more to in those 4 months only having sex maybe 5 times. We love each other of course and still are affectionat but i cant help but feel somewhat unloved and unwanted. I know its not the case but i wonder if im just not attractive to him anymore. And we'll say we'll have sex later tonight and dont most of the time which just makes me feel dejected. Weve been highly stressed lately cause of moving which we know is whats killing his mood but it makes me feel so much more loved and helps with my stress a lot. Im more than happy, i just want to hear other peoples stories and opinions. (Also weve talked about it whenever it happens and he says my feelings are 100% valid and that hes sorry and would love to have sex more but his drive is just not there)(he also offered to try even if hes not in the mood which i shut down immediately cause im not making him have sex if hes not in the mood).