I am an extremely non violent person. I don't think violence solves anything. My husband isn't violent either. My husband has some uncles that aren't his biological uncle. They're related to his step mom who he calls mama. Some of them also aren't here legally (his step mom and her family are Mexican) but that's not why I'm worried. They've all been in his life since he was a baby and when he was 10 he got sexually abused by his babysitters boyfriend and also a victim of CP. His uncle's are nice but they have their own way of handling things. When they found out my FIL kicked the guys ass and he went to prison. The guy got out of prison over a month ago and we only knew this because his uncle's called him to ask if he wanted them to take care of him and my husband said he didn't care. Well I found out from someone who knew him that he's missing. It seems weird to be a coincidence. It just worries me about his uncle's. We have children and while we don't know if his uncle's are actually responsible for why that person is missing I just don't want them teaching my children to handle things with violence. I'm wanting opinions