I was in a relationship with a guy for about one and a half years. In the beginning, I didn’t even want to be with him, but he pursued me intensely for months. For the first year, he was the one putting in all the effort—he couldn’t stand me not answering his calls and was very jealous. But about a month ago, he started to change. He became distant, blamed me for not understanding him, and kept saying I was only focused on myself and not working on my own issues.

Even though I was sacrificing so much and caring for him deeply, he made me feel like everything was my fault. In the last few weeks, it got worse. He started more fights, saying he had no energy left to continue and that I was the problem. Then, suddenly, he stopped answering me. I tried reaching out for days, but he ignored me completely. It hurts so much, and I know I shouldn’t keep trying, but a part of me can’t accept that he would do this. I’m struggling to understand how to let go.

I know he doesn’t want me, and as an adult, I need to just let it go and move on. But I feel like I’m losing my mind and behaving like a really crazy person.