Me and my ex broke up 2 days ago. We both admitted to getting lazy in the relationship and stoped trying. There were things that I had asked him to change, like being more responsible, helpful at home, more clean, and I complained about his wandering eyes. We’ve been texting back and forth today. He told me that he realised too late that he should have changed his behaviour when i’d been asking. That he doesn’t stare at other girls, he just takes a look at them just like everyone else does. I do know the difference between an innocent look and lowkey drooling over other women, which is what i’ve seen him do multiple times. He said that he loves me just the way I am and that he doesn’t want anyone else. He said that he wants to change himself for me and us, that he wants to make it better between us and that he will do anything to not loose me. It’s been very difficult for me, I even decided to go to a therapist right after our breakup because I’ve never felt so horrible before. I don’t know if he will change. My friends will be disappointed if I take him back. I don’t know if it would be a mistake or if I should give him a second chance.