Possessiveness a good trait to have?

Question

Hello everyone, I hope you are well. I am in need of some perspective. I am in a loving relationship with someone who is planning to marry me. We Have our parents involved and wedding plans being discussed. I have noticed that he is quite possessive but I don't feel controlled by him but I noticing signs of possessiveness. I need some perspective whether this is healthy or not and are there ways to work through this.

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I would call the example you gave a control thing since he’s bothered by you not responding quick enough. and I would not call possessiveness a good trait to have. my bf is possessive in the way that hes very attached to me and can get jealous and protective but he does not get bothered by me being busy, not responding immediately or doing things without him etc. so I would say the fact he’s questioning you for not responding for a few minutes is unhealthy

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I would say that it is as long as it's not excessive and you don't feel controlled

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Men from asian backgrounds can be like this.. not all.. but most.. and just think if he is like this now.. he will be worse.. his family will get more involved in ur relationship.. u can continue but u need to set boundaries.. if he can't accept that.. then please walk away.. and i know that's not easy because of the pressure of ur family.

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Possessiveness a good trait to have?

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