So tired of dealing with my husbands “low sex drive”. His testosterone levels are normal but he just says he tired. He does work early hours 5 days a week an electrician and helps out with the kids and cleans sometimes. I work two days a week so he does it all. He’s in his mid thirties. I’m just tired of feeling disappointed and depressed about it. Ideally I’d like us to be intimate twice a week atleast but it seems I’m finding it hard to even get once a week. It’s like once he feels sick he doesn’t even touch me or hug or kiss me. I can’t stand not getting affection. He knows this. We have been together for 15 years and married for 7 with 3 little children. Our sex drives have changed. Mine has increased since entering my thirties and his is just getting lower. It makes me feel so depressed and unwanted. I just want to give up trying and initiating and saying fuck it. I’m done.