Hello all!! I need advice . I am a 22 year old with a bf that’s 24 years old . We have been together for close to 2 years now . I will say this relationship is both our first ADULT relationship & we both love each other very much , however recently we have been having a lot of issues regarding our relationship.

One of the biggest issues in our relationship is transportation. We don’t live together just yet (plan too sometime next year) . We still live at home with our parents . I am over his house WAY more than he is over mines, because tbh my mom is strict on being laid up in her home, & my bf’s mom is a bit careless on me being in her home . I mean his family is very welcoming & they tend to have a lot of guests anyway .

Even though I am over his house all the time due to my mom being strict & I have to respect her rules, me & him have issues on me being at his house all the time . I work & make my own money . I don’t ever ask my bf for money . My bf works in construction & makes good money . I recently just asked can he start giving me money for the trip i make to come to his house, especially since I use my gas money & probably spend way more on gas than he does . He said yes, but he then go say he’ll give me $20 for gas …..

I honestly was a bit taken back for that cheap of gas money he is willing to give me during the week . I mean am I wrong ? I spend like $70 a week on gas as it is. We kind of had a bit of a disagreement after he said this . He also said well for now on we can see each other 3-4 times out the week because he doesn’t want to have to PAY to see me . Everything that was coming out his mouth was like an excuse to me. It’s like he was being selfish . I honestly sometimes feel like he’s just not doing enough to take care of me . I feel like i put a lot into the relationship & i overextend myself while he does the bare minimum. It’s not like I’m one of those women in a relationship where the man pays for everything .

Please yall tell me if Im tripping . I need advice on what my next step should be .

much love 💕