9 months pregnant and he hates me

My husband and I are going through the worst times. When we are okay things are amazing, but today I expressed the things that bothered me yesterday. I have been taking care of our 4 year old by myself mostly and expressed that I needed more help. This led to a horrible disagreement, I asked if he hates me and he said idk and then I asked do you still love me he said no. He also said that he can’t apologize because he doesn’t feel bad for the things he says or does.

I just want strength to be a good mom for my toddler and baby.