Am I being played? Or am I over thinking

I am talking to this guy. We are not together. We have been talking for about 6 months.

I’m 26 and he is 34. He is so sweet to me. Very smart and our personalities match. He compliments me alot. When we are together it feels so good. I think it’s fair to say I love him? He’s always worried about my well being. He is honestly great but there are a lot of red flags.

So I mainly Uber to his house. He has a car… so I don’t understand why he doesn’t offer to pick me up. I always spend money to see him… like 15-19 dollars there and back..

He only ask me to hang out after 9 pm. He has a job that requires a lot of his time so, I don’t know if I’m taking it too seriously.

He only seen me twice in the last two weeks. He barely sees me. At first it was like 2-3 times a week. Like I get his job takes a lot of his time.. but I’m lonely. This bothers me the most.

He came really late to my birthday get together. He came around 1 am. He gave me a present tho. It was a swavorski necklace.

You guys, he does not want me talking to other guys. Wants me to only be loyal to him. We are sexually active as well. I only been with him for the past few months.

I can’t tell if I’m being stupid and overthinking or if im just being played like a fiddle. He reassures me when I see him and tells me things like “your perfect, you where made for me, your so calm sweet pretty, I couldn’t have found anyone better” and I leave his house smiling but then I get sad because I know I won’t see him for a bit.

I don’t understand like, if he only wants sex.. just say that. I just don’t want to be played and waste my time. I’m 26 and he is 34. I feel like I don’t understand him fully since there is an age difference. I am just scared of being hurt. We are in so deep emotionally but the actions do not match.

He never asked me to be his girl. In fact he said he was not ready for a relationship because his previous relationship was for 2 years a. He has been single for a bout a year now. He told me that he wants to wait and give it more time before jumping in. Idk what to think

I asked my girlfriend if I’m tripping. She said I am. And that I’m over reacting. Idk my gut tells me I’m getting played. I’m just lonely af and I feel like I’m wasting so much time, idk what to think man.