Hi everyone ,I need to know if I am wrong . I had a miscarriage last week and it’s took a huge toll on me I wasn’t very far along at all but it was a pregnancy that we have been longing for and i’m just so devastated .I have opened up bout it to a couple friends/Family and I have got comments like at least you weren’t far along or at least you can focus on your career,Everything happens for a reason .And tbh i get even more angry.Like there is a brighter side of a miscarriage .After those few comments I have been keeping things to myself i haven’t went out much or been around people.Im also a ultrasound tech at a hospital so only image the mental pain im going through every day seeing other peoples baby .My husband lives in another state rn due to military and won’t be moving back till february so i’m physically going through all this by myself which sucks while taking care of a 6 year old . I’m struggling to say the least . I told my family I will not be attending Thanksgiving and they still are pushing me to go .But i refuse because My sil is pregnant and it’s just to hard for me to see anyone pregnant i fight back tears everyday at work and tbh i don’t think im put myself through that just to show face and act fake happy for other people .I told my mom she can have my child that day if she like and she said she will take her but now she is trying to push me to go through my daughter by telling me my daughter to ask me . i’m i wrong for not going i just want one day where im not emotional or talking about pregnancy