She said I don’t value myself

So I’m 21, I was talking to one of my friends and she decided to be super judgmental towards my life. I told her about a guy I’ve been seeing for the past year, I told her the sex was good, and that we mostly just have sex that’s all we do, but we do talk and have conversations. I’ve been pregnant by him before but had a termination. I really don’t care for a relationship I just wanna have sex and I choose to do that with him bc I know he’s clean and it’s only one person.

She said “whether we wanna admit it or not he looks at you like a piece of meat. You don’t value yourself as a woman. You just don’t wanna be alone. I never met a woman who just wants to fuck and wants nothing else out of it until I met you” She also got super judgmental and upset because I told her I’ve had 2 terminations in my life. She said she feels like once u get preg u take care of those kids.. I said but not in poverty! That’s my decision and what I chose to do. If I don’t wanna be a parent I don’t have to..

Opinions? I really feel like she’s placing her values in life onto me when I’m a grown woman and if I just wanna have sex w him I should be able to only have sex… what’s the issue? Neither him or me are in relationships.