Nervous about our families meeting

I’m so nervous for my family and my boyfriend’s family to finally meet.

My bf and I have been together for 3 years and we live together. His family lives in another state, that’s why they haven’t met yet. My mom has never cared to meet any of my ex boyfriend’s family, so it’s not weird to me that they havent met yet.

We are getting serious and my bf talks about us getting engaged soon and getting married. So obviously our parents are gonna have to meet soon.

My mom is extremely judgmental and jealous. If someone isn’t perfect, she judges them and if someone has something better than her, she is jealous of them. So you can tell she doesn’t have many women friends.

I think she is gonna be jealous and compete with mg boyfriends family. Because they own a business and have a lot of money and have super nice things. My mom and dad have money and have nice things as well, but I know my mom is gonna want to compete with them.

My bf and I talk about this all the time and say we don’t think our parents are gonna like each other.

I don’t know what to do about it.