What can I do?

So my husband has an obvious addiction to gaming whether it be Xbox or playing games on his phone. He told me like two months ago he was going to take a break because he feels like it just masks his depression and doesn’t fix the actual issue. He wanted to do hobbies that actually paid off. So he started doing a remodel to his closet (it’s halfway down) and started getting back into drawing. This lasted a month. I got him a lot of art stuff to help him build up things to use. His mom also did the same for Christmas. He started drawing one thing and stopped. He’s now back to playing video games all the time. He has a group chat with his friends that literally 95% of the conversations are about gaming. That’s what they talk about at work too. I just don’t know how to help him get away from them. We had a birthday party today and we have 3 kids.. I was trying to get them ready & there he was playing his games. I literally have to be like “alright can you please get off & help me now?”

It drives me nuts. He is on medication and it does help some. However, this is like all he thinks about & does. He even watches YouTube videos about gaming. Last night, we were going to have sometime together. So by time we showered and got ready for bed he was on the Xbox. I went to lay down waiting for him & he never came. I accidentally fell asleep and this morning he said that I didn’t tell him I was in there. Like.. he knew that was our plan? I feel like video games are a much higher priority over myself and the 3 kids.