Thoughts… confused. LONG!

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Hey ladies, this might be a long post but I wanted to see if anyone may have insight as to what’s happening/happened…

A week prior to all this I did have a tiny bit of spotting after sex one night and it went away with in like an hour or so.

First, at the beginning of all this I had no idea that my period what late til day 3.

I started having weird cravings, breaking out more than normal (I never really break out honestly) , mild nausea, and few other things that I chocked up to probably stress. But I had none of my normal pre-period symptoms.

And when I say cravings I mean pickles on pizza and cheese dipped in mustard kind of odd for me.

On day three of my missed period that’s when my boyfriend AND my best friend started noticing something was weird and suggested I might be pregnant this time around. (Side note, my boyfriend and I aren’t trying but aren’t preventing, we are happy if it does or doesn’t happen) that’s when I checked the app and noticed I was 3 days late, mind you my period is ALWAYS spot on time..

This would be a good time to point out I have a severe vitamin D deficiency which I know plays a huge role in conception. I also know I’m perfectly healthy aside from that due to getting blood work just two weeks ago to check all my bips and bops because of my deficiency.

So that afternoon I took a test (yes I know it’s supposed to be in the morning for best results but I was impatient) The test came out faintly positive, I even posted it in another group and many other individuals commented on seeing the second line too. Which is a relief because line eyes

The following morning I took another 3 tests, all three came out as a hard negative… I thought it was odd but no big deal I’ll wait a few days and try again. All the tests I had taken up to this point were dollar tree test.

During the slow waiting days, I just ignored it the best I could, but all the while still had the same symptoms that my boyfriend and best friend seemed to point towards pregnant.

Now we have reached to today. I woke up and thought “ok now I’m 6 DAYS late it’s got to show up on the test by now right?!” So I got a 6 days early first response test and took it with my morning juice, and it’s negative! So I spend all morning confused and stressing over it. Hours later while I’m at work, I finally get my period but it’s not what it usually is like. (Continued below)

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Normally my period is super heavy and dark red for the first 3 days, then light and red for the rest. I usually go through 3-4 pads a day for the first 3 days. I started today around 11am, it’s currently 10pm now and I’m still on the same pad, barely anything on it but the most confusing part is it’s light brown when I wipe, and the tiniest bit on my pad. No red at all. And now my cramps are more intense than normal.

The only thing me and my boyfriend can think of is a chemical pregnancy, and lost it due to my vitamin D deficiency? (For those who don’t know your vitamin D levels as a woman in her mid/late 20’s needs to be between 30-100, mins float between 14-22…

Test from 3 days late:

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I have health related anxiety, if you think I need to see a doctor please just thumbs down the post, DO NOT comment about health conditions!