Fat biased

To all the OBs/ midwives/ and physios who told my PVP caused by SPD was because of my weight and if I was a healthy weight in pregnancy I wouldn’t have it well a big F you! I love 50kg (100ish pounds) so finally be a healthy weight this pregnancy (my third) and the pain is worse than both combined! I can hardly walk most days. Now they tell me there is nothing I can do to prevent it and that it is because of my cartilage issues I have. I don’t regret this baby but if I was better informed about the likelyhood of SPD I probably would have reconsidered. Fat is not always the cause and they need to stop spreading that and dismissing pain for weight related issues! Any one have this problem with their healthcare? I am seeing a new OB and midwife now who told me that it was not my weight but my arthritis that made it worse and are actually trying to help instead of dismissing me but I can’t say they would do the same if I was fat again.