Venting, advice plz
My boyfriend has never cared about us being in a relationship on fb or his information being public. I went to his page and realized he made everything private including his relationship status and his job. Also his friends are now private.
Now the strange part; I asked him about him deciding to be private. He said word for word “I was talking about autism and some mfers were making fun of our boy” so he said he made everything private. Thing is tho, on our facebooks we have in a relationship but don’t have names connected to it.
Needless to say I don’t believe him. My gut is telling me otherwise. He doesn’t ever post about me. No pictures of us, no comments, no nothing. No Mother’s Day post, no birthday post, absolutely NOTHING.
I find like random spam accounts with half naked women under his follower list. Fyi I’m checking everything from my own phone, don’t even need his. He deletes all my posts and doesn’t even approve to put me on a spotlight. Maybe I’m crazy and asking too much, idk. I’ve never dealt with this before all I know is it sounds like BS!
Update; sounds like I’m crazy. Regardless I don’t see it that way. If it was about our child, he should’ve taken his cover photo off too because that’s our shared child and that’s who it was about. I also let him know, these people can still find you. He didn’t block them and his profile picture has likes on them all you gotta do is make a few clicks, those people can find a way, they always do.
It doesn’t seem honest to me at all. If he started that much BS just to put everything on private.
I’m in this group on fb it’s unfiltered so you can pretty much say what you want. Those people you argue with do take things real life. So maybe I’m worried he has people he’s trying to protect me from because he did something wrong? Hopefully it stays fantasy and doesn’t enter the real world.
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