Am I wrong for feeling this way?

I’m so exhausted I’m almost 32 weeks but I’m high risk I have extra fluid and baby is running in the 98th percentile. No gestational diabetes but my dr said I can go into labor at anytime and plans to induce around 37-38 weeks.

My bf just lost his brother it is very sad and heartbreaking and I’m trying to be there for him. He wants to have him cremated with no service. But his family is out of state and wants him brought down and just expects him to drop everything even though he doesn’t want to. They started planning a ceremony without even asking him first about bringing the ashes so now they’ve pressured him so much he is going. This is going to cost us quite a bit they said he can try to get donations and use that to pay 🙄😒 plus when he leaves I will be 35 weeks. Plus he mentioned to some guy we both know that I’m pregnant and he just straight out said are you sure it’s even yours?

The guy made comments about me being stretched out after and wanted details of that night also made comments about he should cut the cord even if it turns out not to be his bc it’s cool to see a live birth. His family is now making comments on a name we decided bc the baby will have my last name not his only bc it is a Spanish name and blends better. He never says anything never defends me.

Now he is in the hospital with the guy that made the comments he didn’t want me there bc he might have something contagious bc he has a fever. I was pissed that he called that guy and then he had that asshole call me and text me bc his phone is almost dead. I feel so disrespected that he would even have that guy there let alone want me to return his call after what was said. I feel like between his family and coworkers I’m always on the back burner and he never stands up for me but just says “I hope you didn’t take that the wrong way” side note I wanted to move out of the country with my family but put it on hold when I met him he now doesn’t want to go and I put it off bc how could I make someone go who doesn’t want to and now I have so much regret 😭😭