Ladies give me your honest opinion !

Hello ladies, can I get your honest opinion.

So there was a man that I was dating and while he and I were dating, he put his hands on me on two separate occasions * the second time we were no longer dating at that point* The last time he did it was February and I have not spoken to him since. Something told me to look him up in our state case search and a domestic violence offense popped up, which was filed last week. He and I stopped talking for a few months at the end of last year because I went to his house and he had another womans car in his driveway. While I was there, I was able to get her license plate number and I looked her up so I knew her name and number but I never reached out to her because that’s not my man and I’m not about to look crazy about anything like that. My question to you is it weird that I want to reach out to her and offer support to her because I there was alot I’ve experienced with him so I can relate to what she might’ve been through. If I reach out to her, I wouldn’t even know what or how to say what I think would be appropriate or helpful. Then another part of me is saying don’t say anything. I’m just stuck because I’m coming from a genuine place but just because I am doesn’t mean the next person will respond how I’m approaching them. Also, they have court this week for the matter.

To put it out there, in case someone asks..

No, we never started dating again after November, however in January I did begin back hanging out with him.

No, I don’t want or talk to him. I haven’t spoken to him since he put his hands on me last month.