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Im a white woman. I dont get mad, i dont give a shit who marries who. But everyone from every race can be judgemental, not just white women.
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As someone who has dated several different types of men it’s not just them. I would get disrespectful comments or stares from BM, Hispanic women, and so on. I also see BW mad at BM who date outside of their race too. Miserable people are just mad because their life sucks. Like they say “Hating people ain’t happy, and happy people ain’t hating”.
Racism my friend, it’s racism. White women historically are unable to recognize their own oppression and are made to see black women as the enemy instead of seeing them as allies. We aren’t taught about our privilege, we are fed misogyny from the day we are born, and it’s up to us to dismantle the garbage we have been shown. It’s the same reason why the votes in that demo went the way they did in November. White women don’t get it, they will hurt themselves in the process of trying to hurt others.
I am a white woman.married to a mexican man. I know exactly how you feel. I get bad looks from hispanic woman all the time. But on.the other side i have met really nice ones as well so i try not to.let it bother me so much. Alot assume he married me for papers...it gets real annoying. Now that im.pregnant i get even more dirty looks. I guess like.others said there is a racisim or maybe its not even.that maybe they are jealous to see you happy
I'm guessing the same reason why some black women get mad at white women for dating black men. Why entertain the racists by talking about them. Talk TO THEM. Call them out when you see them and are around them.
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Yup my sis brought a boyfriend over to my grandmother's one year around Thanksgiving or Christmas. I was so embarrassed and wanted to cry for the guy bc I know what it's like to have been bullied. That whole side of the family is a bunch of enablers and racists. Yet, to this day my sis entertains them. She's only gonna continue to be brainwashed and possess a low self esteem bc of them. I cut them all off.
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This Part! I’ve been with my husband for 10 years…. I’m white and he’s black! And I feel like we get stares or sly comments all the time! by his race! He tells me literally everyday he “hates his own race” I don’t ever say much! All I say is white, black brown fucking rainbow people whoever color” literally everyone kinda sucks! They JUDGE JUDGE all day long for what for what purpose ? I guess because they’re just sick and miserable and lost in their Own world! I just go on about my way!
I don’t think it’s “white women get mad” I’m guessing the people you see aren’t used to biracial where you live. The stereotype around here is black men like big, fat blonde white women. I’ve noticed it to be true lol, my cousin for one. Lol
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Also I’ve seen plenty of videos of any race women being mad at their own race men for dating others. This is like the world goes up in arms when white people adopt black kids or vice versa
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