Feeling ungrateful.

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How do you feel about people (ie MIL, long distance fam/friends) who don’t normally check in asking every few days to once a week how you’re feeling from like 37 weeks pregnant on?

Idk I’m like I want to feel grateful!! I’m lucky that I have people who care and are excited but also am thinking that I’m good, busy but good and these messages are comforting for you but work for me lol! They aren’t intrusive mostly just “how are you feeling” but my MIL does ask if my crotch hurts lol 🙄 we’re close so it’s not weird but she’s told me it was how she felt before she gave birth and she did the same with baby 1. I have also told all these people (there aren’t that many) that they are on my short list and will know when baby is here.

Not really asking for advice on what to say/how to handle the messages I’m kinda just wondering if I’m an ungrateful person or if it’s reasonable that I don’t feel like having an uptick in texts to keep up with so these people can be in the know now when I have told them they’ll know when baby is here.

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