Would you make your husband cut his sister off if she told you to "Go make out with your dad"

I'm a Daddy's girl til the day I die. Me and my dad are super close. He's not really a fan of my husband. Granted any guy that married his baby girl he wasn't going to like. I let my husband know that. It's never anything personally.

We had an incident because my husband was unemployed for a couple months due to a mental health crisis. My husband got upset that I shared with my dad what caused his mental health crisis. I tell my dad everything. I trust him not to go telling people. He didn't but he did start bringing it up to my husband at weird moments. I told my husband he's probably just upset that his baby girl was the main provider for a while. So there's been a lot of tension between my husband and my dad. I love them both.

My dad comes over every week for dinner and my husband said yesterday he doesn't feel well and doesn't feel like dealing with my father. His sister was there helping him with some paperwork she's experienced with. I said I want my dad over. He said he doesn't have the mental ability to deal with him. We had a fight and when I get mad I say shitty things. I told him my dad always said I could do better. I would have apologized but then his sister said "God. Go make out with your dad already!" My husband didn't correct or defend me. He just went to the bedroom.

What his sister said is disgusting and if she truly thinks things like that I don't want her in our lives. I told my husband if he loves me he would be willing to cut her off because that's a gross thing to say. Now he's calling me controlling

@Molly and I believe you're sexualizing a relationship between a father and daughter. It's sad that we live in a world where women are constantly sexualized that we can't even go on a period app without being sexualized by other women