Do your privates really change?

Question

Ppl are saying you become “loose” after having kids but some say you bounce back like a rubber band? I feel like people are just trying to scare me at this point. They say sex just becomes not enjoyable as much for your man?

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No, you don’t become loose. People are ridiculous.

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It's neither. It isn't like a rubber band where you push a kid out and by the next week its like nothing happened. It also doesn't stay open or like how it is post birth. Over time things go back to very close how they were. Things may be a little different but it goes back to normal.

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Ya I heard the same thing before having kids. No you don’t get loose at all. When I was healed and ready to have sex again it was actually painful for him😅because he said it was so tight.. tighter than it was before. And it’s still like that even with baby #3

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No, you don’t become loose. Women’s bodies are made for babies so of course it goes back to size. The sex should still feel the same for the man as well.

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Literally 0 difference. Have had 2 babies. First I pushed for 3+ hours and the second literally flew out in less than 15 mins. Got 2nd degree tears both times and my vagina looks and feels exactly the same. In fact sex is probably better now than it was pre-kids.

Do your privates really change?

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