Baby doesn’t want to be with dad

Our LO is 4.5 months and it’s getting worse, I’ll try to make this short.. our “agreement” was I’m a SAHM and my partner gets home at 5:30/6pm. Once he gets home he’s suppose to be with the baby till 8pm so I can shower/ eat/ relax, the baby DOES NOT want to be with him. She has 1 hr wake windows and the most she stays with him is 20 min MAYBE. I noticed he does things on purpose but then gets upset when she doesn’t want to be with him. She’s at the age where she gets bored and he wil not try to “figure it out”. It slipped out last time when she was crying with him I offered a suggestion to help him because I do side job only 2hrs a week (that one day he’s off work) I said “babe try this because I don’t want you to struggle when I’m not here” he responds “well I know that babe, I’m actually going to do it tomorrow”. And I respond wow so because I’m here you’re not going to try and he stood quiet.

This is really affecting our relationship because when he gets home he gets to eat/ shower/ relax comfortably & when I give her to him I’m rushing because she starts crying right away. There was ONE day I wanted him to figure it out on his own instead of me rushing to save the day. I told him 3xs babe lmk if you need help. He was ignoring me pissed because the baby wouldn’t stop crying with him, I finally got her and he goes “oh you FINALLY want to help????” And I got mad and told him “I wanted you to figure it out I offered help 3xs! You didn’t ask” and we did not speak.

We went out with his coworkers this past weekend, one has a 6 month old the other 8month and these females were raving about their partner. How much the babies love them and how much they help.

I instantly got sad and wish that was my case.. it’s affecting how I am towards him because it makes me angry..

Is this normal for my LO not to want to be with him?