My husband and I have been trying for a baby for a while now. We were doing medicated cycles and did 3 IUIs over 2 1/2 years, we decided to see about adopting through through foster care and that didn’t work out because in our state you have to be either 25 or 15 years older than the child you are adopting so the oldest we could adopt is 9. We went through all the trainings, backgrounds, etc we started visits and overnight visits well with multiple of the visits the child would listen to my husband and would hit, kick, smack my face and knock my glasses off and bite me. He left bite marks and bruises all over my legs and arms during this time. We’ve recently decided to try our treatments again and have our first appointment with our specialist on April 3, we’ve told my parents and my brothers family because they live close to us within 10 minutes. My husbands family lives in Arizona and Utah and weren’t very supportive during our first round of treatments, telling us that we need to get rid of our animals to be able to afford it all even though our insurance covers almost all of our doctor bills because they our deductible. They told us we just need stop stressing and going to all these appointments that we just need to stop all together even though they support my

Sister in law that got an std from her husband and he’s cheated her on at least 6 times that everyone knows about, one of those being when she was pregnant with their first because she didn’t want to have sex because she didn’t fell well. So we are really struggling on how to tell them or if we should.