So I have a lot of issues. My ex who I share children with was abusive, I still attend therapy as a lot has gone on. I have trust issues and I am paranoid. I have told my boyfriend about my life with my ex as it has.left me with health issues (traumatic brain injury and a lot of mental health issues). He has been great. 2 weeks ago I found out my boyfriend and my best friend have been talking, not cheating, nothing sexual just allllll about me. So sometimes I would get up, get my kids to school and go back to bed he would go to her asking if i had been in contact with her and then they would go into talking about what had happened in my past. I know I told her some parts of my past, I told him others. I dint delve too far into it, just kinda brush over it. So I did see they had messaged talkibg about another ex of mine, he cheated on me and had hit me a few times, I tol my boyfriend but ny friebd didnt know. Well she does now. I have cut both off as I feel bitched about, if I.stepped out of line I feel like he ran to her for advice. I kniw he cared for me, but I never even knew they communicated.