I feel like I can’t get a break at all…

I’m a STAHM to my 2yr old daughter and I get burnt out occasionally like every other mom but my husband always tells me “ why you so burnt out easily?” “ you need to control your stress better” I basically do everything around the house with little to no help plus take care of our daughter bathtime and bed time by myself every night… when my husband does help he always points it out as like he expects a gold star ( yes I know STAHM are supposed to do house work but alittle help every now and again would be nice) I’m with my daughter from 7am to when she wakes up to 7pm when she goes to sleep and if she wakes up in the middle of the night I’m the one to go get her…

I don’t get to sleep in if she wakes up my husband will wake me up and tell me she’s up and go back to sleep..

Today I went out shopping for a hr n half and came back as asked how she was and he was like good only yelled at her a couple times and she was talking while he was and he got mad at her and I told him that she’s only 2 and doesn’t understand and he needs to be nice and he goes “ well it doesn’t help I’ve been trapped her with her.” And ever since then he’s been so mean and short with her cause he’s “ burnt out” and then told me to either take her somewhere or he’s putting her in her room and before I can even Answer he takes her and puts her in her room and she’s screaming and crying so I go in and take her and leave to the park we spend about a hr there and come back and he’s like “ hi.” To her and was still grumpy so I took her back to her play room cause I’m not dealing with that and she doesn’t need to either and he comes in and we’re playing with our hamster ( the hamster bites) and he’s like I wouldn’t be sad if the hamster but you right now and I’m like that is not okay to say if your gonna act like that leave. And he’s like what she’s been difficult and I’m like she’s 2!!!

And when he does watch her I get stupid questions of “oh should I change her diaper?” Or “ do I feed her lunch?” Or “ she’s hyper what do I do?“

I’m just over it at this point I’m burnt out but I can’t take a break cause he can’t even last a hr with her without loosing his casket so I feel like I can’t even step away and then I get told I need to handle my stress better 🙃