Why Are Neighbors So Nosy!

Today I was outside in front yard and the neighbors a wife and husband talking and he looks at me and says She's 38 still living with her parents! He's looking right at me

I'm 28 I'm living at home in my Dad's house and he has a big house what is he doing living alone he asked me to stay here with him. I cook I clean I pay bills and yes I live here it's like there's no respect for adults living with there parents our neighbor went and told my dad hey my kids moved out at eighteen why is your daughter still living with you? He told her to mind her own business.

Now I have talked about this and I feel so bad and ashamed like my neighbors are condemning me judging me and I feel like crap when I go out of the house I don't know what to do

My neighbors the one who said she's 38 they were infertile and adopted and the man had cancer and I never judged him the other neighbor her husband cheated on her with her best friend and she came out of the house trying to shoot him and I minded my own business never told the police she's attempted murderer they have things problems and aren't 100 percent perfect they have things they are insecure with are struggling with the same woman the wife started screaming one day running around the neighborhood help!!! about a spider that she has arachnophobia and I helped her catch and release the spider and I didn't judge her I just helped her but if people have problems why are they judging me I feel bad because they make me feel bad they judge meI just want them to stop judging me and mind there own business.

I have always been kind and I care about my neighbors wellbeing I feel like crap I go out for a few minutes hear that then I go out walking around the neighborhood I feel guilty like I'm being judged and I beat myself up about it and I'm mostly indoors when I'd like to be outside in the front yard.