I am 41 & pregnant with my 4th child. My other kids are 11, 8, and 6. I keep wondering if this is a good idea, or if I'm being selfish because I always wanted a 4th child. We would have to start from scratch again, and because of my age - run some risks, right? Am I crazy to do this again? We "tried" since 2020, and did not have any luck. I literally was just coming to the realization that this was it. Party of 5....then SURPRISE!!! pregnant. Any advice or fellow AMA mamas??