My mom and sister offered to throw me a baby shower which I was hesitant to do bc I am not a fan of showers. However they convinced me by making it coed and pretty casual, with unwrapped gifts. The problem is my husband travels and my parents have a vacation until feb 20th. I am due March 9th. She said we can have the shower after feb 20th bc my husband will for sure be in town and they will be back from their vacation. I am thinking I am going to be swollen, feeling fat, cranky, and not wanting to socialize that close to my due date!  I could also have it the first week of April after the baby is born when my brother is in town. What do you think??