Boyfriend mad I’m having a baby shower

So we have a 2 year old and just moved into a new house to accommodate for the new baby. I’m 32 weeks now. We have my baby shower June 3rd (so pretty last minute). Originally he was fine doing a baby shower. But I wanted to hire someone to do the set up for us because it would come out to be the same amount as us doing it ourselves (renting tables, chairs, food, decor, etc). He thought it was too expensive and I agreed but the lady was willing to lower her price as we have booked with her before so he agreed. My parents sent her the deposit because they wanted to help with the baby shower. After the deposit was sent out, we ended up finding this house to move into. He thought the expense of the baby shower and moving would be too much but my parents just said they would pay for the baby shower, so it worked out. But he’s upset I’m still going through with the baby shower because we’re not the ones paying for it. While I understand his point, if my parents are offering to pay for it, I’ll take it because we didn’t get to have a baby shower with our first and I was really looking forward to it this time. We got into an argument about it and he basically told me he didn’t want to do it and to stop being it up. I told him that I was still gonna accept their offer, but that I wouldn’t bring it up to him at all and I would plan it myself and he said fine. Well this was a few months ago, it came time to send out the invites and he got mad because I sent it to him and just asked him to invite his side of the family. I’m assuming he thought I wasn’t going to go through with it? He’s just been making me feel like this pregnancy isn’t as important as our first.. We haven’t even decided on her name yet because every time I bring it up he just brush it off. And doesn’t want to talk about it, I mentioned the registry a couple times, and he wouldn’t even answer me, and he doesn’t even know what’s on it, or has even seen it as a matter of fact, he doesn’t seem interested in how my appointments go, we haven’t prepared anything for her yet like at all because he just avoids it. It just sucks that I feel like he doesn’t care about this baby as much as our first.