Hubby has no friends 🤷‍♀️

My husband has no friends lol

His one and only friend of 41 years disappeared from his life 6 years ago AFTER my husband was caught being on dating sites and having emotional affairs.

Why his best pal of 41 years, the one guy he did side jobs like carpeting and tiling homes and business, went fishing with, went hunting with, went to the bar for pool night disappeared from his life is beyond me….his friend is a notorious cheater who’s been married 6 times and cheated on all his wives 🤷‍♀️

My husband said to me tonight

I’m lonely I have no friends I never get out of this house to do anything I want too just no desire to do…. just everyday go to the gym for 2.5 hours then work 9-12 hour shifts then home

I said I’m sorry you feel that, I support you if you wanna go fishing or whatever it is you wanna do, maybe we can do something together? Maybe ask one of your colleagues out for a drink just tossing out suggestions

He said yeah idk

I said hey if it makes you feel any better I have no friends, I leave the house 3 times a month to get groceries and I work from home lol only real human interactions I have is with you 😂

He said yeah but that’s different I need to get out and do stuff you don’t

I said ok yeah you’re right I’m sorry

Anyways is it really different the situations?

Like he always does this whole it’s different crap

Like if we both slipped and fell on the floor exactly the same well my fall isn’t that bad his is different than mine

He talks to me a lot about his relationships with his coworkers how they joke around, stand around and bullshit etc which is why I suggested maybe ask one of the guys out for a guys night out or something