Would you forgive your boyfriend ?

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If you were pregnant and your boyfriend lives with you and you already have a 1 year old together and find out ur pregnant again and you start to have miscarriage symptoms and start bleeding and he’s out with friends drinking while u have to go to the hospital and have to take ur one year old because you have nobody to help you watch her and you call/text ur boyfriend multiple times and he’s no where to be found and he shows up at home at almost 4am drunk knowing that you had an emergency and he could careless ? I kicked him out right there and then and he left to his moms two hours away I’m currently still bleeding and losing the baby and he hasn’t called or text to check if I’m okay not to check on his one year old or to help me with her I think at this point I’m done don’t know if I’m over reacting but I’m pist .
Ladies I just want to say thank you for your input, all of you are right I just changed the locks , I’m just so hurt beyond measure I can’t stop crying at the fact that I’m losing my baby 😔 and on top of that having to deal with him texting when can he pick up my daughter his mom saying he’s getting his own place all this I don’t need to hear right now is the last I want to deal with and the stress on how am I going to do it alone financially so quick when I was a stay at home mom is just to much on my plate please pray for me 🙏🏽

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You’re definitely not overreacting. This is unacceptable for him to do. It’s immature and messed up. I’m sorry you’re going through this alone and I’m sorry you have to suffer while also being strong for your little one. Never let a man treat you like this. If he doesn’t see you as a priority now he never will. Your priority is your 1 year old and your health. Don’t forgive him, leave him and focus on yourself and your child.

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i think you did the right thing, he needs to see his actions have consequences

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You think your done? Hun you should be done. What an inconsidrate little tw*t. Sorry your going through this xxxx

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Yeah no leave him alone what a pos

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This is unforgivable in my eyes. Idk how I could ever not be upset by the father of my kids caring so little about something like that. I’m so sorry you are going through all of this.

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You’re not over reacting, he’s simply a pos. His family should be more important than going out and drinking. Don’t think about being done w him, just BE done w him. You and your baby deserve so much better. I good father figure and partner would put his family first to anything.

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You’re not over reacting. He should have dropped everything and came to you when he first knew you were bleeding and going to the ER. 
I’d only understand it if he was at work and they didn’t let him leave, our drinking with friends is not an excuse.

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First off I would t be with a man who was out partying and drinking that’s a boy

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So sorry this happened. You should leave him for good. He showed where his priorities are. He doesn't care about you or your babies. Put his things outside and change the locks. Lean on friends and family for support

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That should be the end of the relationship. He doesn't care about you.

Would you forgive your boyfriend ?

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