Last time my baby dad seen his son was probably the end of march when he had his son and my son for about 2 hours then we hadn’t heard off him since. Baby’s 8 months old now, he got a gf in march and he hadn’t seen him till yesterday so near enough 3 months so I’m assuming that’s why as he’s always around the area but never comes to mine or my moms when me and baby are there

When he was first born he was there most of the week then as he grew he just pops in and out or pulls up outside my moms for 10 minutes to see him then goes (this was before march)

Last week he said he was coming down to see him but didn’t show didn’t even reply when I asked if he was still coming.

When he seen baby yesterday every time he looked at or held him baby would cry and cry and cry and want me and I know it’s probably cuz he hasn’t really seen him and he doesn’t exactly know him due to popping in and out but I’m just thinking should I block him? I send him pictures of baby a few times a week to have no reply or 1 reply every 2 weeks to me it seems he’s not interested and as baby gets older and dad keeps popping in and out I don’t want that to have a negative effect on him.

My other sons dad was abusive towards me physically in front of my son when he was 1 and nearly ran me over and and also popped in and out would disappear when he got a girlfriend which is why I don’t allow him near us. My younger baby’s dad isn’t abusive but he does pop in and out so what should I do? I really don’t want the upset of him because his dads not turned up or dads here one moment gone the next. He doesn’t work either so there’s not really an excuse to take an hour away from his day for his kid. If he cared he’s be there. What shall I do?