He’s been shady for a couple weeks now

He’s just been off - not himself. Not into sex, coming home late (or not at all) with no real explanation. Spending all his time at his buddies place after work. Runs out for something quick and is gone for 5 hours. This kind of shit. And the reasons aren’t good.

“I drank more than I realized - why are you mad I chose to not drink and drive?!”

“Oh I stopped here and here too lost track of time.”

“This person is going through it right now said I’d stop by so I’m gonna spend the night.” (For this last example it was Friday he said he’d be back Saturday and now it’s Sunday night and I haven’t got a single text call reply from him. Utter silence.)

My gut isn’t feeling the vibe. Two weeks ago all over me - looking at houses, buying stuff for our unborn child, coming home and just attacking me with love or a snack or something.

Now? I don’t see him. He doesn’t reply. Doesn’t give me any notice. Just disappears and when he reappears tells me I’m being extra and shouldn’t worry so much because I’ll stress the baby (I’m pregnant).

I’ve changed the locks. It’s my apartment not in his name and he hasn’t been here for a year so it isn’t common law. I’ve folded all his clothes put them in two rubber bins by the door so if he ever shows up it’s ready for him. I feel like this weekend is the straw that broke me. I haven’t seen or heard from him since Friday at 5pm . It’s currently Sunday and 6pm. His phone isn’t dead it rings and rings then goes to voicemail. My messages say delivered. He was active on FB and instagram. But complete silence from him.

I don’t care if he’s cheating - I just hate being in the dark. Have the decency to say I’m not coming home. Don’t ignore me like this and confuse me.

All I’ve done is text and call and I drove past some peoples houses (his buddy, his ex. His moms, etc.) he’s alive. I’ve seen his truck. But he’s ignoring me checked out with me clearly.

Edit - I reached out to my landlord and asked before hand - he gave me an ok in writing and I’ve already given him a key. Here the landlords consent is enough and with my now ex not being on the lease agreement it isn’t a factor because he’s only lived here for about 6 months, not a year