I've lost my job before I can start it. But I have two options.

I just want to know how I can go about a situation here. I quit my job because my boss was exposing me to COVID wards and at the time my kids were not vaccinated. I have three kids one nearly 5 two under 4. I am now involved in the jobs victoria early childhood traineeship with a TAFE to become a trainee educator. I came so close to getting a job at my local daycare, but when my provider rang to sign me up the daycare turned around and said I'm sorry they thought I was going to be a student on placement I lost my job before I could even start. I then dropped out of the program becoming a full time carer for my eldest with ASD.

But recently my mother said it is good to go out and "be of service" or study. Even with the kids so I can get adult communication and I don't lose all my skills. I want to know (there are two options here, going back to full time study then doing my work experience with the company who didn't give me a shot) still and getting the job that way or going back as a trainee but finding a new employer. (Mind you if I work there my kids can go there too).

I'm a sole parent, I used to be partnered with a 51 year old recently and my son's dad but used me for his green card so we are divorced.

How do mums who have 3 or 4 kids do it, like work, maintain a house, husbands?