I think every woman who posts a bump pic, no matter side or shape, is so beautiful. And I envy them. I feel like a whale and unattractive at 21 weeks. I'm ready to change that. I deserve better, and I want to love myself.  So, while I HATE New Year resolutions, this is one I'm going to make.  I want to be proud, not embarrassed, and it's time to make that happen.