My boyfriend and I are having our first baby together. He lives with me and we have been trying to move into a bigger place for a very long time...now with the baby on the way he feels more pressure..as do I. On my end he just dosnt understand pregnancy and has been nothing but negative no mater how positive I try to be. I know I can't just up and move into a huge house to fit all our soon to be 5 kids total. I get I work part time as a lna and with the baby I won't be working as much. But right now I don't care about the realistic part of it. I want to dream that this time I will have a room for just the baby and nice back yard for the kids. All he does is point out how unrealistic I am when I'm just trying to be postive. God has a plan I know I trust it and all he saying is that I'm a fool for thinking it's even a possibility. I'm pregnant I don't care if I want to be queen before this baby is here. Shouldn't he just shut up and dream with me instead of say no no no that's not going to happen so get it out of your head. I Litterly can't stop crying and he's just staying in the bed room sleeping. Cuz I'm being a bi tch...all I said is I'm going to a first time home buyers seminar this month and he just shuts me down. I can't give up I'm in a two bedroom with two children pluse his daughter every other week in one room. There has to be better for my kids I have to try..even if it is faulse hope..atleast I have hope...